Change your narrative.
As someone who tends to let other people’s inferred opinions and feelings disrupt my mojo, this method really works
Two of my favorite quotes from Dr. Dwayne W. Dyer (there are lots of them) -
'You get what you think about, whether you want it or not. Commit to thinking about what you want, rather than how impossible or difficult that dream may seem.'
'Thoughts are mental energy, they're the currency that you have to attract what you desire.'
That's it. It's really simple.